yabitter:

i also saw a post the other night that was basically like “you’re allowed to drop contact with people for whatever reason you want and you don’t owe them an explanation” but that line of thinking is blatantly selfish and gross. dropping relationships and refusing to work for friendships is not healthy and it’s wrong to treat someone else like they don’t matter at all to you. of course always take care of yourself and if you’re in a harmful situation, do your best to remove yourself, but it’s not cool or edgy or cute to treat others like they’re disposable. if you care about people, you don’t give up on them when things get rough. that makes you a shitty person.